I took some pictures that brought me to this topic. If you are in love with someone is it without judgment? Does something come up later that you bring back up? Now I am not meaning this necessarily as a spouse but maybe family, or even friend. If you care for someone or love someone then it should never matter.
This is something I had to learn, I will admit. I won't say me and my husband never had problems. I won't say me and friends never had issues. Yet in the end we are still here and I love them unconditionally.
These pictures I took of Emily and Dora goes with this topic. See its obvious they are different, Emily a dog and Dora a cat. There is something not so obvious Dora is male. James named him when we got him we thought he was a female. Still the love is unconditional with no judgment. Can you say you love with no judgment?