As my blessings grow in the form of people, so do the expenses. Now there are 19 people in my immediate family and forget the number if I count brothers, sisters, mother etc. So after awhile, I had to change the rules.
With nine grandchildren ages 2 - 18 and one child 17-years-old, I decided they all get gifts until they make me more. Once they add to the already blessed family, their gift goes to the newbie.
Of course, when I become a great-grandmother, I will have more problems than to worry about Christmas gifts. Doesn't life go by too quickly?